我也很久没有去那家吃 tapas了。
最近,我先生在与他对姐妹讲电话,告诉了她们知 他为了我生活有保障而立了遗书。他说了一句感动我的话:「如果我死了又没有法律保障的遗书,她会变成 homeless.」
MeekSarah 发表于 2021-03-05 00:03
我刚刚看完那个 love on the spectrum,最后一集的求婚我哭的稀里哗啦。平常看电视剧电影,甚至身边的求婚,我都是完全没有泪感的。
真的觉得你老公好有爱。剧里的很多人看起来都很正常,多观察一会或多或少跟NT的人还是有一点不一样。能跟他们长期的走下去,真的是要做好 长期好好照顾他们的打算。
我自己看的时候在想,我是做不到的。像配偶这样的长期关系里,我期望的是两人相互照顾。要我长期的去照顾对方,不是说做不到,但是肯定不是我的第一选择。剧里看他们跟父母和爱人的互动,真的能体会到一种更为纯粹更有深度的爱。
I feel so happy for you.
我刚刚看完那个 love on the spectrum,最后一集的求婚我哭的稀里哗啦。平常看电视剧电影,甚至身边的求婚,我都是完全没有泪感的。
真的觉得你老公好有爱。剧里的很多人看起来都很正常,多观察一会或多或少跟NT的人还是有一点不一样。能跟他们长期的走下去,真的是要做好 长期好好照顾他们的打算。
我自己看的时候在想,我是做不到的。像配偶这样的长期关系里,我期望的是两人相互照顾。要我长期的去照顾对方,不是说做不到,但是肯定不是我的第一选择。剧里看他们跟父母和爱人的互动,真的能体会到一种更为纯粹更有深度的爱。
I feel so happy for you.
trudily 发表于 2021-03-05 00:13
昨晚临睡前阅读这回覆,马上指住 “love on the spectrum” 笑嘻嘻地望住我先生。
他笑回:“I am living with one. That is why every night, before I go to bed, the nearest toilet is occupied and I have to use the farthest toilet. ”
因:我这Asperger 不用其它toilet,只固执地「御用」某一个。上次,我先生换了个新式设计有水洗butt的侧板,竟然发现我几天不能大便。
我問:“I don't know why I consistently fall into the same time as you to use the toilet every night?”
他用一点也没有 bother 他的轻松谈笑声(很好的卖相)说 :"I know why. You are wrapped into your little world until I come to bed. Then you just realize it is bed time and the task before sleep is to pee. "
谢谢你 能有与人同乐的 爱心!
我个人心得分享:有了 不嫉妒,不羡慕别人的故事 的心境 就容易 与人同乐!
Commitment (1/6)
One evening, perhaps three months after we met, I woke up.
The denial that hazed my vision was pieced.
The truth of my heart had arrived in my consciousness.
Arrived is, perhaps, too weak a word.
It overwhelmed me.
It was a wave that had crashed over me weeks ago and I was just now realizing I had been swept out into the sea of Sarah’s heart.
Commitment (2/6)
Sarah is a good woman.
She has an openness and honesty about her that is so complete she is naked in the world.
She engenders a trust so completely she is unlike any woman I have been with before.
I trust her completely.
This is new to me.
I am not a trusting person by nature.
I always reserve a small piece of my trust from everyone, my wife, my sisters, my friends.
But there is Sarah.
Sweet, honest, lovable Sarah.
She is beautiful on the inside and out.